Submitted by Kristen Gallagher, director of PR/communications

Selecting the right college can be a pivotal milestone in a young person’s life, and for many students, family plays a central role in this decision. The process is an opportunity for families to work together, with parents offering guidance while empowering students to make a choice that feels right for them. 

Fostering Open Communication 
One of the most important ways families can support their child is by encouraging open communication. Start by discussing the student’s goals—both academic and personal. Is the student passionate about a specific field of study, or would they like to explore their options? Do they envision attending a large university, or are they better suited to attending a small liberal arts college? What extra- or co-curricular activities are important? How will the student engage with their faith during their studies? Throughout the decision-making process, open communication helps ensure mutual understanding about expectations for both students and their parents. 

Balancing Practicalities and Passions 
While enthusiasm for a specific school is important, practical considerations like cost, location, support systems, and academic offerings must also weigh heavily in the decision. Families can help their child create a list of non-negotiables and nice-to-haves. For instance, if affordability is a top concern, explore options offered by the various schools for scholarships, grants, and financial aid. Having an honest conversation about budget early in the process can help avoid difficult discussions later. 

Campus visits can also be a family affair. Touring schools together provides a shared perspective, allowing parents and students to assess the culture and community. Pay attention to the campus atmosphere—does it feel welcoming and aligned with the student’s personality and values? Parents can also ask practical questions about safety, academic and physical resources, and housing while allowing their student to gauge whether they feel at home. Another important aspect is to research together how alumni have fared after graduation. What percentage successfully transition to graduate school or into the workforce? What pathways are available for experiential learning and networking? 

Supporting Independence 
While families should be involved, it’s important to give the student room to own the decision. This is, after all, their future. Parents can encourage autonomy by guiding their child through weighing options and visualizing life at different colleges. Encourage them to speak with current students, professors, or alumni to gather firsthand insights. 

Above all, the process should foster collaboration, not contention. Choosing a college can be stressful, but it’s also an opportunity for families to strengthen their bonds. By balancing practical guidance with emotional support, families can help students navigate the path to a decision that feels right for everyone. 

Remember, the ultimate goal is not just to select a college but to empower the student to embark on this exciting new chapter with clarity and confidence.